Roar of Tiger Mother..

Ini adalah entri yang tertunggak dek kerana terlalu sibuk menguruskan urusan harian..teaching years 6 is not as easy as i ever thought...too busy prepared abm (teaching aid) and prepared sources for extra classes..


[ ayah saya seperti ini..bezanya dia tidak memakai skirt *ketawa ]

saya langgan magazine TIMES secara berkala which sent to me weekly..great magazine yang mengupas isu global secara lebih telus dan bersahaja tanpa menyinggung mana-mana pihak. Saya suka photojournalist dalam magazine TIMES sebab their pictures are superb! Artikel tentang Tiger Mother berjaya menyebabkan saya tidak mengajar pada hari tersebut sebab sibuk membaca semua 4 artikel panjang.It is story about how a mother raised up her two daughter in traditional chinese way..walaupun they currently lived in America. State of democracy (*kononnya demokrasi...chitt podah!)

Gila if i had a mother like Amy Chua..tapi what she is doing adalah salah satu cara yang saya rasa I should implement in my own raising-kids-way. She believe that "children needs to know what their capability are" dan saya setuju. Kanak-kanak dilahirkan dengan berjuta-juta neuron aktif sebab Tu kenapa kanak-kanak sangat cepat belajar melalui pemerhatian dan eksperimen awal. Children needs force to know their abilities. Sebagai adult, it is our responsibility to show them the way or all we need to do is FORCE them..hahahaha...part ni ai suka...FORCE them..just like how my parents FORCE me mengaji quran sampai khatam..abah used to "luku" (hitting my head with his fist) when ever i made a mistake in reciting the al-quran... but today i thank him for doing that =)

Tapi tahukah anda di sebabkan corak pendidikan awal ini, orang cina mula menguasai dunia dalam banyak aspek kehidupan. Kali pertama PISA membuat perbandingan antara China dan Amerika, mereka mendapati pelajar cina score tempat pertama untuk kesemua kategori yang di bandingan.. para pakar pendidikan Amerika memberikan kesimpulan yang mudah di mana pelajar China lebih bekerja kuat, masa yang lebih panjang mengulangkaji, lebih fokus berbanding pelajar Amerika. Nahhh...orang -orang cina membuktikan mereka akan menjadi bangsa yang hebat dengan determination dan juga paksaan melalui sistem pendidikan yang keras.

As for Amy Chua herself, she had been raised up in a very strict family. They lived quite long in Philiphine before migrated to America. Amy Chua and her sisters need to speak chinese at home. For every single english word they utterd, they'll received a whack with a chopsticks..and only A's are accaptable in their report card. can you imagine that? there is one time when she took her father to an awards assembly at which she received second prize, he was furious. "Never ever disgrace me like that again" he told her...OMG....saya dapat no 2 pun parents tiyak tak sangga..hehehe

Tapi saya rasa teknik pendidikan Amy Chua is good. Sebab....walaupun kita melimitkan apa saja kehendak anak-anak ketika dia kecil, sebenarnya itu akan memberikan mereka sesuatu yang lebih pada masa depan. Saya rasa..kalau masa itu boleh diputarkan semula..i really hope my father jadi lebih strict dan garang dan expect more than what i capable to do..

"everyone is special in their special own way..even losers are special in their own special way"






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